Indeed, all the important things in life are learned in Kindergarten. The formative years mark better retention of concepts and attitudes and assimilation of culture. Some of the things we learn may be enhanced, revised, or lost because of experiences along with growth. But significantly, there are a few things that we must always remember. I call them “the little words“.
First little word: PLEASE. This word makes things happen. Believe me. Even what you thought could not be done can be accomplished. Uttered with a soft, mellow tone, a request or even an order said with a ‘please’ could not be refused. In whatever language, a ‘please’ is not just a kind word. To whomever hears it, it signifies how important the request is. More so, it acknowledges the dignity of the person being told. Coming from a boss, a please makes tasks lighter. Coming from the ranks, a please reiterates how a request is valued much or is needed. Between friends, it makes the other run the extra mile.
The second little word: SORRY. This word changes a lot of things. Spoken in the sincerest low-tone, a grand mistake becomes a dust in the wind. A ‘sorry’ signifies more than just a humble admission of mistakes. It marks the beginning of something new or something a lot better. A ‘sorry’ is like a promise to not let anything go wrong again. A ‘sorry’ makes the worst enemies the best allies. It gives a different perspective about things. It poses various alternatives. A ‘sorry’ opens new windows.
The third little word: THANK YOU. For however big or small things it was uttered for, a simple ‘thank you’ melts hearts. It makes a grumpy frown turn into a smile. It turns sweat into sweet accomplishments. Hearing it from a boss, it feels so dignifying. Coming from a colleague, it makes a day’s penny worth into a million more earned. Coming from a friend, it builds a better bond. A ‘thank you’ is more than an expression of indebtedness. A ‘thank you’ promises more good things to come.
These three little words are usually underrated as one grows. But they are these words that build relationships and make them endure. They make good things happen and go a long way. They keep our feet on the ground to remind us that we as humans are never flawless so we have to strive to become better persons all the time. And so to lead happier lives, we should always remember these little words. These little words can change the world.
Pretty Little Rosebuds 